The Parent-Coach Relationship

Both parenting and coaching are extremely difficult vocations. By establishing an understanding of each position, we are better able to accept the actions of the other and provide greater benefit to children. As parents, when your child becomes involved in our program, you have the right to understand what expectations are placed on your child. That begins with clear communication from the coach of your child's program.

I would expect coaches to share with you their philosophy, expectations of your child, locations and times of practices, team requirements, injury protocol, and any type of discipline that might result due to a violation of team rules. I would expect parents to communicate to coaches their concerns, scheduling conflicts, or specific concerns in regard to a coach's philosophy and/or expectations.

Issues that are not appropriate to discuss with coaches include playing time, team strategy, play calling, and other student athletes. It is very difficult to accept your child's not playing as much as you may hope. Coaches are professionals. They make judgement decisions based on what they believe to be best for all students involved. Please do not attempt to confront a coach before or after a contest. These can be emotional times for both the parent and coach; meetings of this nature do not promote resolution. Therefore, issues like these must be left to the discretion of the coach; so please follow and respect the "24 hour rule."

It is my hope that everyone involved in South athletics enjoy their experiences, but more importantly understand their roles within them as well.

Go South!